Who are the Osuagwus and what is Marriage 180?

Check out the interview below!
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How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become Life Empowerment Experts? 

To answer this question, it’s probably best that we share with you some defining moments, and resulting “compelling stories”, that brought us to where we are today – coaching people like you on exactly what to do to heal their heart, prevent divorce and fall back in love again. These defining moments occured throughout our collective lifespans. As individuals, we both experienced significant trauma in our lives. 

For Leontine, her trauma started early in life. She was sexually violated as a young toddler by a neighbor. This created an emotional foundation of mistrust and rebellion throughout her teenage years. She felt like she needed to protect herself at all times, and as she grew older, this became a problem in her relationships and career. Leontine was often insubordinate to her employers, rebellious, and resistant to criticism from her bosses which caused her to lose her job a few times. 

In her personal life, her friendships were superficial and meaningless. She was always waiting for the other shoe to drop, and expected only bad things to happen to her. As a result of her emotional deficit, low self-esteem, rebellion, defiance and her constant need for self preservation, Leontine went through multiple failed romantic relationships as well as a broken engagement. Even after marrying the love of her life in 2005, the soulish damage from the abuse, neglect and rejection in her childhood was robbing her marriage of the intimacy, love and fullfillment that it derserved. 

For Emeka he was imprinted at a young age as well. His father left his mother when he was a teenager, leaving him without a father figure, to find his way as a man on his own. He lived his life without a clear sense of direction which led him to marry the first woman who made him feel significant and embarked in a 12 year

marriage that would almost cost him his life. He found himself fighting with his first wife constantly. The anger that he had suppressed from losing his father at a critical time in his life came rushing back and his marriage became miserable over time. He didn’t know how to stop or prevent arguments with his wife, and the relationship felt out of control. He spun his wheels trying to figure out what he needed to do to get himself out of constant conflict. The abuse and dysfunction continued to escalate, which ultimately created a life of fear and powerlessness. 

Emeka and Leontine both reached points in their lives where they only had one choice to solve their problems. Pray. And they did, and both received very clear messages about what God was leading them to do. 

For Leontine, her prayer was answered with a deep hunger for a stronger and more intimate relationship with God. She then launched into a soul healing journey where she opened her soul up to the Ministry of the Holy Spirit and allowed him to heal her “soul wounds” and transform her into a devoted, humble, submitted and fulfilled wife and mother. 

For Emeka, his message was to be humble, grab hold of his emotions and learn to de-escalate heated situations with words. God allowed Emeka to see how love could forge a clear pathway to safety. 

Emeka and Leontine allowed God to heal their soul (mind, will and emotions), where they developed a sense of awareness about the way their lifelong trauma had sabotaged previous relationships and had threatened to destroy their current marriage. With God’s grace and direction, they were able get completely free from the emotional bagage of their past, divorce proof their marriage using soul healing and life empowerment strategies and started teaching Christian couples how they can do the same: 

We watched couples heal from the wounds of their past, release anger, unforgiveness, bitterness and offense, turn their marriage around and fall back in love in record time. 

We have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of our professional lives to helping other married couples break through soulish baggage, master their emotions, release mental anguish, put an end to constant fighting and build the kind of meaningful, strong and fulfilling marriage they’ve always dreamed of. 

We’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups: We’ve helped many men and women prevent divorce, restore love, intimacy and respect in their marriages and we have created the soul healing and connecting system, a series of 10 important inner and outer steps every couple needs to heal from “soul wounds”, divorce-proof their marriage and fall back in love in record time. 

 

Who are your clients? 

We work with couples just like you who have a past that is littered with pain and disappointments, they’ve sabotaged meaningful relationships because of their emotional and mental baggage and their marriage is at risk of falling apart. However, they have never been taught that the chaos in their marriage is directly correlated to the condition of their soul. Additionally, they have never been taught exactly how to heal the wounds of their past, how to allow God to mend the broken pieces of their heart and how to release bitterness/resentment and establish deep intimate connections with their partner so that they ALWAYS know how to love, honor and communicate effectively with their mate.

Our clients include: 

• Married couples who are experiencing infidelity in their marriage. 

• Married couples who are at the brink of a divorce or separation. 

• Married couples who are currently separated.

​• Engaged couples who are looking to set their marriage up for success.

• Newly married couples who want to start their life together on the right path.

• Married couples who are experiencing constant conflict in their relationship.

• Empty nesters who are looking to re-establish a deeper connection with eachother and redefine their marriage.

• Married couples whose relationship has gone cold, who’ve lost their intimate connection and have become emotionally and physically distant.

• Married couples who are currently separated but want to get back together and start rebuilding their marriage. 

• Anyone with a struggling marriage who is sick and tired of going in circles and wants to prevent divorce and fall in love all over again.

 

What makes you different from other “Life Empowerment Experts?” 

Although we will occasionally touch upon goal setting and other “life coach-y” things, you have us as Soul Healing & Life Empowerment experts and consultants. We work on the inner and outer principles for soul healing and Life empowerment. We look at your soul and your marriage and help you identify areas of self sabotage as well as give you strategies and principles to help remove the residue of past trauma, pain and disappointments and build a strong marriage from a Biblical perspective. What that means to you is that you get wise-spiritual- soul healing-meets-kick-butt authentic marriage restoration coaches. We are unashamedly Christian and spirit-led and we don’t pretend to hide it either. Because we don’t beat around the bush, you’ll always get a straight to the point, Biblically-sound and honest response from us. 

We are concerned with how to get your “soul wounds” healed FAST – to help you STOP self-sabotaging so you can develop the level of intimacy that you deserve and fall back in love with your spouse. 

We don’t beat around the bush or waste time. You may not like what we have to tell you – but you can be sure we will always tell you the truth. The truth about what’s causing the turmoil in the marriage and how to get rid of it FAST so you can start building a strong, loving and intimate relationship in record time (and we throw in a healthy dose of humor and inspiration, which always helps!). 

What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me? 

The Soul Healing And Connecting system, products and programs were created for people who are absolutely excited and dead serious about breaking cycles of divorce and separation, healing from mental and emotional wounds, building a strong marriage and finally experiencing what the Bible calls “The Abundant Life” in their marriage – it means putting an end to fear, shame, regret, blame and unforgiveness, beating yourself up saying things like: “I don’t think we can get past this” or “This marriage will never work”. 

They were created for you to put principles in practice within a few months (sometimes weeks!), which will eventually lead you to healing your mind, mastering your emotions, aligning your will with God’s will, and finally breaking the cycle of broken relationships so you can increase your level of initimacy and divorce proof your marriage once and for all. We will take you from an "I can't deal with you anymore" marriage into a beautiful, growing, and "happily ever after" one. That’s what we call A MARRIAGE 180!

Being purpose-minded people ourselves, we’re known to work best with other purpose-minded people, people who are committed to the success of their marriage no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to heal their heart, prevent divorce and fall back in love again. Clients often tell us – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with us to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to heal your “soul wounds” and rebuild your marriage. 

You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal: Heal your heart, Prevent divorce and fall back in love again in record time. 

For what type of people are your programs NOT going to work for? 

Please know that we are very selective in who we work with and we cherry-pick our clients, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for our programs and won’t get the results for which they would have signed up for. (It wouldn’t be fair to them.) The Marriage 180: How To Heal Your Heart, Prevent Divorce & Fall Back In Love Again programs are NOT for those who have no money coming in and are absolutely, financially desperate, at least not right away. 

It’s been our experience that people in a financial crisis do not trust the recommendations we give them and do not do the work (probably because they spend so much time worrying about where they are going to get the next month’s rent check or mortgage payment.) If you fall within this category, it’s absolutely OK. We’ve all been in times of financial crisis at one point or another. 

We have (3) recommendations for you: 

1. Get some money coming in with a full-time or part-time job at the very least, and then call us. This will take the edge off and provide a little more peace of mind. Mostly, it will de-clutter your mind enough to focus on your Marriage 180 assignments and the BIG picture. 

2. Join our free Facebook group where you will get weekly training sessions that will get you started on the journey toward preventing divorce & falling back in love again.This free information will get you started towards your goals until you’re ready to work with us one-on-one. 

3. Make a point to read the “Marriage 180” emails. The tips are sent every week and will give you LOTS of awareness and tools to get you started on the journey toward healing your heart, preventing divorce & falling back in love again. 

Doing these three things will really help you get primed for our work. When you’re ready, call us and we’ll get you started. (We’re in no rush and we will be here when you need us.) 

Other types of personalities we won’t work with (without exception) are the complainer or the chronic skeptic, as well as individuals who consistently make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenging every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, we gently and respectfully ask that you not call and I hope you understand why. We’ll probably just not work well together and we wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Is that fair? 

What exactly is the Soul Healing & Connecting System™ and what does it include?

The Soul Healing & Connecting system begins with understanding your true value and the value and purpose of your marriage from a Biblical standpoint, how to believe that you deserve to have a marriage that is abundant in love, respect and intimacy, how to receive what you want from God (including peace, love, intimacy, respect, soul healing and a healthy marriage), how to create powerful intentions that get you results as well as the outer pieces to powerfully heal from the inside out. We will also draw on practical and often painful experiences in our own lives and apply the Gospel to them in a way that gives you hope. 

Here’s what the System gets you to do: 

1. Know where you are 

Before we can rebuild, we must honestly and transparently assess the damage. We will examine where you are in your mind, your will and your emotions (ie your soul) and in your marriage. We will identify the areas of breakdown, uncover the deeply rooted “Soul Wounds” responsible for the breakdown and create a plan of action for healing and restoration. 

2. Know what you want 

We will get CRYSTAL clear about what you want your inner life to look like and how you want to feel, connect and interact in your marriage. You will get an understanding of the benefits that you are entitled to as a child of God and what you need to do to get access to them. You will also learn how to establish expectations and boundaries for yourself and your spouse that will pave the way for creating a solid foundation for your marriage. 

3. Take responsibility for the success of your marriage 

You will learn the difference between taking responsibility and taking on guilt, shame and condemnation for yourself, which is one of the biggest mistakes that people make in trying to rebuild a broken rmarriage. Husbands will learn how to take a leadership role in their marriage Biblicly and wives will learn how to securely embrace their role as a “help meet.” 

4. Partner with the supernatural 

Together we’ll find out exactly how you can come into perfect partnership with God and the Holy Spirit as you begin to explore the crevices of your mind, your will and your emotions. You’ll learn how to get out of God’s way and let Him handle situations that only He can handle. We will teach you how to draw on God’s “Dunamis” power that is within you so you can fight the negative spiritual forces attacking your marriage and know beyond a shadow of a doubt that “No weapon formed against you shall prosper.” 

5. Release Your Inner Resistance 

Mostly you might already know what you need to do but yet are still struggling with pride, fear, shame, feeling stuck and spinning in circles. You’ll learn proven techniques for breaking through your inner resistance, self doubt, fear, pride, shame, anxiety and all of that “stuff'' that keep you offended, feeling lonely and stuck in negative cycles of a sub-par marriage so that you can begin to experience the true freedom that Christ died to give you. 

6. Manage Conflicts in a way that honors God

You will gain a clear understanding of how your communication behavior was deeply impacted by your past traumatic experience and how to avoid common communication blunders. We will teach you how to master your emotions and control your tongue so you can avoid unnecessary and hurtful escalations. You will learn Biblical reconciliation strategies and conflict resolution approaches that will help you manage disagreements successfully. 

7. Re-establish strong emotional connections 

You will learn powerful strategies and response techniques that will help you re-establish strong emotional connections in your marriage. Your confidence and your self esteem will skyrocket and you will master the art of making your spouse feel valued in the communication exchange without feeling awkward. You will learn how to freely express your feelings towards your spouse so you can deepen your level of intimacy. 

8. Rebuild trust 

We will teach you proven strategies and Biblical precepts and principles that will help you develop positive consistent behavior so you become dependable and reliable and rebuild trust in your relationship. Success, here, is not based on perfection but on submission to godly principles that heal, mend, and restore your relationship. You will learn how to become truly accountable to God and to your spouse so they can begin to see you as integrous and credible. You will get an understanding of what it means to work together so you can truly become the “Threefold Cord” that can never be broken. 

9. Celebrate! 

We’ll focus a lot of our time celebrating wins and creating the new habit of celebrating important milestones and accomplishments. Your peace, joy and fulfillment will sky rocket as you begin to see God move in your heart and in the heart of your spouse over and over again! Celebrate what shows up so you can pave the way for even more success because only what you appreciate will continue to manifest in your life! 

10. Create a maintenance plan 

Together we’ll create a strategic plan that helps you develop consistent behaviours and keep your relationship nourished so it thrives. You’ll learn interpersonal interaction patterns that ensure your relationship remain strong, peaceful and fulfilling. 

Congratulations!!! Your Marriage 180 has begun and you’ll never again have to worry about not being able to trust your spouse or not knowing how to communicate with them. You will also never have to worry about a lack of openness, a lack of intimacy or honesty in your marriage….and you will always know how to love, honor and respect eachother so you can prevent divorce and fall back in love all over again. 

In addition to these 10 categories, you will learn hundreds of things that help you manage your mindset, master your emotions more effectively, love yourself and others better, improve your attitude, get out of your own way and step into God’s favor by building a strong marriage. These are the steps of The Soul Healing And Connecting™ system that we’ve created after working with couples from all walks of life to help them heal from the pain of the past so they can enjoy the blessing of God ordained and fulfilling marriage. 

Does this really work?

Yes! The result of our work is an approach to shifting your mindset, releasing the pain, mastering your emotions and learning how to establish emotional connections so that with time, and consistency you’ll heal your heart, rebuild your marriage, prevent divorce and fall back in love again. (See Testimonials)

What results can I expect? 

You can expect to: 

• Put an end to self-defeating thoughts and live a stress free life. 

• Forgive God, yourself & others & find more peace and compassion 

• Believe in yourself again, and in your capacity to love 

• Learn to trust again after disappointments 

• Improve your relationship and level of intimacy with God 

• Break generational cycles and patterns of broken marriages 

• Create an emotionally stable and enjoyable home for your family. 

• Become a positive example for your children to mirror their marriage after

• Prevent divorce, separation and constant arguments 

• Learn proven techniques for fighting spiritually for your marriage, releasing your internal resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies so you can build strong relationships. 

What qualifies you to teach this? 

We have over 20 years of experience training, coaching, mentoring and empowering men, women and couples, helping them heal from “soul wounds” through the power of the Holy Spirit so they can thrive in their marriages and in life in general. Please go to the Client Testimonials page and read about a few of the results that our clients have received. We believe that they will inspire you to pursue your own soul healing journey so you can prevent divorce in your own marriage and fall back in love again. 

How quickly can I expect results? 

That depends on how quickly you can make those inner shifts and breakthroughs. Some clients experience Marriage 180 in a very short time frame, sometimes even a few weeks while others have a bit more work to do first. It also depends on how far along you are in your soul healing journey, your relationship with God, your level of commitment and the extent of the damage in your marriage. 

How can I guarantee myself that my heart will heal and that I will prevent divorce and fall back in love again in record time? 

Be "ALL IN" both you and your spouse (if one spouse is not ready, we can start The "Healing The Wounded Soul" part of the program with the willing spouse). Do all of your homework. Be totally committed to your success. Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All our clients who have diligently applied every step of the Soul Healing And Connecting System™ have successfully restored their marriage in much less time than they would have on their own AND have more joy, peace and fulfillment as a result.

Will I recover the investment I put into this coaching program? 

Yes, a resounding Yes! I want you to stop reading for just one moment to ask yourself, “What is a healthy marriage worth to me?” And what price tag will I put on ending depression, loneliness, anger, offense, avoiding divorce/separation and being able to love again and feel loved? Chances are, that amount will more than cover your coaching investment. The information and skills you learn from the Soul Healing And Connecting System™ will improve the quality of your life and marriage forever…. What you get in our programs (and our coaching) is what we call a series of major breakthroughs! That will move your relationship faster than you would on your own. Expect to get a lot of these as well as the resources and tools you’ve been looking for and haven’t found until now. That’s what you’re investing in, results, mental stability, emotional mastery and healing, more confidence, more joy and a strong, healthy and fulfilling marriage, not just more “information.” 

Emeka and Leontine, based on everything I’ve read and heard about you, I know you’re the ones I want to learn from. What are my options for getting started with you? 

Congratulations on making a decision for your marriage! We are happy to work with you to achieve your soul healing and connecting goals… The best way to work with us is in our Marriage 180: Heal Your Heart, Prevent Divorce & Fall back In Love Again signature program. 

Here are some of the results you can expect... 

• Put an end to self-defeating thoughts and live a stress free life. 

• Forgive God, yourself & others & find more peace and compassion 

• Believe in yourself again, and in your capacity to love 

• Learn to trust again after disappointments 

• Improve your relationship and level of intimacy with God 

• Break generational cycles and patterns of broken marriages 

• Create an emotionally stable and enjoyable home for your family. 

• Become a positive example for your children to mirror their marriage after 

• Prevent divorce, separation and constant arguments 

• Learn proven techniques for fighting spiritually for your marriage, releasing your internal resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies so you can build strong relationships. 

OK, I’m ready to do this for myself, but I have a couple of additional questions. Can I call you? 

Good, sounds like you’re ready to be pulled into your future! Yes, if you have a couple of questions, just email us at info@marriage180now.com or call us directly at 443-201-1966 and we’ll be happy to walk you through the different options to see which one will be the very best for you. We can’t wait to see you emotionally and mentally whole and thriving in your marriage and we are honored to be the ones to help you. Let’s get going! To your healing, Joy, peace and fulfillment in your marriage, Emeka & Leontine

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